Ruth Rolfe
What makes Ruth Wildly Capable?
Ruth’s advocacy work extends back to the 1950s, when she was one of the students who worked with Clara Luper in the Oklahoma City civil rights movement. She continues to work on the Clara Luper Legacy Committee, and she works on many social justice issues at her church, Avery Chapel AME. STEPHANIE HENSON
What keeps you up at night?
Citizen apathy is a thorn in my side! It grieves me to see so many, especially among our young people, who feel that it’s not important to vote. This is especially disappointing when I think of all those who worked so hard, many giving their lives, so we could have the opportunity to express our civil rights. Being able to reach them is challenging, but not impossible.
Who is the biggest influence in your life? Why?
My parents, A. Willie James and Sallie James, taught me the importance of family and a personal relationship with God. Mrs. Clara Luper, the mother of the Civil Rights movement in Oklahoma City, taught me the importance of prayer, standing up for what you believe in, and being fearless. I have carried that philosophy with me throughout my life and it has helped me become the person that I am. One of my most cherished memories is having Dr. Martin Luther King sign my high school yearbook. In our conversation, he told me to have the person sitting next to him to sign the yearbook, too. It was James H. Meredith. I am encouraged every time I think about that experience.
What’s been the biggest obstacle in your life so far?
Perhaps the biggest challenge for me is balancing how I use my time. Many things are important, some things are urgent, and then there are things that are nice to do but not necessary. I love what God has allowed me to do and the resources he provides. At the same time, I must remember to take care of my health, stay spiritually connected, and spend quality time with those I love, especially my son Jarvis, my granddaughter, great-grands, and my amazing church family. Asking the Holy Spirit for guidance, discernment, and the faith to follow through keep me going.
What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
When I took my son Jarvis for a routine three-month checkup, I asked the pediatrician for advice on taking care of a child with Down Syndrome. His response in a very matter of fact way was, “Just treat him like any other kid and he’ll be alright.” He was absolutely, positively correct! Jarvis is an amazing man and that advice more than 50 years ago still resonates with me.
